I had the week off this past week. I had a HUGE list and was hoping to go beyond the overdue stuff to do some more, like cleaning out cupboards and hanging pictures, but we just had one of those weeks where one thing after another that should have been easy was not. In the spirit of thankfulness though, I’m thinking about all of the bright lights this week. It wasn’t the kind of vacation where you travel to a sunny place, sample excellent food and drink wine, gazing at the starry sky. But it afforded us a chance to get caught up on life a bit, and that was worth it. So here we go!
1.) We have a new modem. After going over our internet bill for the last few months I upgraded our package and got us a new modem. This is good, should be cheaper in the long run, and hopefully worth the snarky feelings I had towards the people who butted in front of me as I was trying to corral a toddler into waiting in line at the service center, the annoyance at the modem that was faulty and needed to be returned, the instructions to install it which could not be read as I didn’t have the program, and no internet to download this program, and the 2 useless service calls trying to get it all sorted. It took a full day but it is done. Done!
2.) Catching up on bills and forms and paperwork. We had a lot of little things to clear out, overdue and demanding more attention than an exhausted hour after workday/ dinner/ bath/ bedtime – and I think we got all of the big ones out of the way. Phew!
3.) We are all feeling better after the miserable stuffy heads, drippy noses, and achy limbs that kicked off the week. One after another we all caught the dreaded cold, and felt just wrung out. So I’m thankful that we had planned to stay home this week, and I’m glad we are all on the road to recovery now.
4.) Thankful for our family – Baby J has some fantastic grandparents and aunties and uncles that were happy to invite us over, feed us (I didn’t have to cook for two days in a row!), letting us relax knowing he was playing happily under their watchful eyes while we were sick. And then when we felt a bit better we made this fun video as part of Tyler’s song a day project:
5.) Family really deserves two waves of feeling thankful this week – to include the sweet, smiling cousin that pulled Baby J around patiently in a wagon all afternoon, helping him get out to pick up a toy, helping him back in, pulling him along again. And the great-aunt and uncle who watched him all day today so that we could catch up on some administrative things at the end of the week. We’re starting to peek out from piles of emails and make some plans for the next month and it feels great.
6.) I was able to take Baby J to Toddlertime at the library during daytime (normally work hours) and despite being the youngest one there, he fit in fine, sat fairly still for the story, and even got up and bopped a bit to Old MacDonald had a Farm.
7.) Thankful that I was able to go over and snuggle my friend’s week-old baby, finding time to bake her cookies and cut up some veggies (snacks I adored in the first hazy weeks adjusting to motherhood) and bring her some infant sized hand me downs. Most people tend to buy bigger sizes as shower gifts, which is great too, but I loved getting newborn stuff, reliving me of daily washing (who know something so small would get so dirty, so often?) and I’m loving that I can get more use out of them by passing them along.
8.) The weather has been stellar the last couple of days – making me really enjoy fall so far, loving the last rays of golden sunlight, the crunchy leaves, the open windows during the day. It’s an unbelievable mood booster!
9.) Happy that we managed to do some things just the 3 of us, this week, too. We visited Valleyview Animal Farm, this nice little area nearby that has animals to feed and admire, from goats to pigs, deer and ducks. There are lots of fake animals to climb on (we learned that Baby J has added a good horse whinny to his repertoire of animal sounds), wooden tractors, piles of sand and toys, picnic tables for lunch or snacks, and a ton of different play structures to climb on and explore. He’s a bit young for a lot of it, but he had a good time and it was a great way to enjoy a morning outside.
10.) All the time in the day. I’m running around busier than ever before, but I’m also using my time more, I find – I’m up earlier, my head is always moving and scheduling the day, we get groceries and we play, we visit with friends or take 15 minutes to just collect stones and climb steps outside. I absorb all of the new words and funny things, and then I enjoy that time to myself at the end of the night even more. I’m thankful for this precious life I have and all the time I’m given to enjoy it.
Wishing you all a marvelous weekend full of sunshine and happy things – they’re there, even when they seem hard to find.